Two months in, and I’m still loving every
minute of my stay in India. I have the semblance of a routine, but every
day is completely different. Looking back, I was a little overwhelmed
when I first arrived in Bangalore.
The noise, crowds, pollution, heat, filth, beggars and hawkers were far
worse than I expected. Rickshaw drivers drive around in circles to rip
you off, beggars grab on to you and don’t let go, rabid dogs follow you
menacingly, dead rats litter the pavement, cockroaches scuttle up the
walls, curious eyes stare at you persistently and the only way to cross
the road is to walk out in front of dozens of honking cars. And yet
every day there would be a moment when India would just seem brilliant.
It may be the Bollywood tunes being pumped out of a passing rickshaw. It
may be a fat cow, sitting arrogantly in the middle of the road
completely unfazed by the traffic buzzing all around. It may be a kid at
school, appreciatively listening to your every word. It may just be a
really cheap, delicious puri at your local eating place. It has been
said many times before, but India is full of such contradictions. You
either love it or hate it, or often both at the same time.
Having travelled a little around the rest of India, Bangalore
now seems like home. After short, busy trips to Goa, Pondicherry,
Mysore, Rajasthan or Kerala, I am always happy to return to my
comfortable homestay in Brunton Cross Road – right in the middle of the
city. I love the way Bangalore is so cosmopolitan, vibrant and laid
back. After school I can go shopping on Brigade Road, wander around the
busy streets of Koramangala, relax in Cubbon Park or visit one of the
many weird and wonderful temples. In the evening there are always plenty
of cool bars and clubs to go to, where you can mingle with the rich
high-flyers of the city.
I did not really know what to expect from my
first project, teaching at a school. However, from the very first day it
has been fantastic. The best thing which I have done is to make up
stories in front of a class about a teddy bear called Sweetie. Often on
the lines of “One day Sweetie went to the zoo…” and featuring lots of
animal noises, once I finished the kids then had the chance to tell
their own stories. The things they came out with always surprised me
with both their imagination and intelligence. Although I have my
favourites, every student is unique and interesting to talk to. It is
their friendliness and politeness which I will probably miss most when I
leave. I will never get tired of walking into a room and have 25-30
kids all say “good morning Tom-anna”. It’s quite an ego boost!
Recently, while they have been doing their
exams, I have been filling out child profiles - descriptions of the
child which will be sent off to potential sponsors. Some of their family
backgrounds are tragic, and I have been impressed by the maturity and
stoicism the kids show. When I asked one girl about her father, for
instance, she said simply “upgoing” – meaning that he has gone up to
heaven. Another girl was orphaned at a young age because her mother
committed self-immolation. When you see all these happy, playful kids in
their smart school uniforms it is easy to forget the difficult
situations they have come from.